Life in Kota is an experience. You learn to
survive under pressure and responsibilities. The pressure to complete the
course work, the DPPs, sheets and n number of other study materials, and the
responsibilities to deliver on the task that you are required to do (crack the
competitive entrance exams with a good rank) makes you tough enough to solve
any problem of life.
While Kota has a lot to offer, they are not
all positives. With the humongous amount of inflow of knowledge and science,
comes a lot of peer pressure. Yes, there is a lot of pressure to perform well
in the tests, keep progressing in the right direction, improve your scores and
so on. There is competition among the best of friends and worst of enemies to
score better.
A lot of people are unable to handle the
stress in the right light. They take to habits like smoking, drinking, drugs
etc. Yes, they take to these habits and worse. There have been instances of
serious depressions and suicides. In fact, the number of suicides have been rising
in Kota for the past few years. Hence, this particular piece of article is
included to show you the bigger picture; to keep you motivated and think
positively about yourself.
There is only one and one you! And that is your power. So, first of all, don’t try to be someone else. Don’t try to be the person living across your room, who might enjoy an occasional smoke and/or drink, while still performing well in his exams. I mean why would you like to live their life. Just enjoy being you.
There is only one and one you! And that is your power. So, first of all, don’t try to be someone else. Don’t try to be the person living across your room, who might enjoy an occasional smoke and/or drink, while still performing well in his exams. I mean why would you like to live their life. Just enjoy being you.
There might be times when things seem
impossible. You may feel that you won’t be able to make it into your dream
college. It’s OKAY! Happens with everyone. The top rankers and the last ones
all have it. You just need to believe in yourself and keep pushing the
boundaries. Even if you don’t make it, there are hundreds of things that you
could do. Life in Engineering is a lot about discovering and chasing your
passion. So, don’t worry. It’s all going to be fine in the end!
If negative thoughts begin to overpower
you, seek some help from the professionals. There are a lot of counsellors
available (some at the coaching centers and many outside). Go and talk to them.
Share your problems, whatever it is. Even if they don’t come up with solution,
just sharing your problems with someone will make you feel relieved.
When things seem impossible, just go out
with some friends, enjoy a good meal, share some laughter, listen to some good
music, watch some motivational videos or simply take a nap. Wake up with
relinquished energy and fight for your goals. Remember, you need to believe
that you are the best! And you really are.
Whether you are in IIT or any other
college, there are ample opportunities. I don’t mean to lower your enthusiasm,
but yes, there are opportunities everywhere. In fact, a large number of people
studying engineering end up working into something nowhere close to it. Strive
for the best. So, life has a lot to offer; a lot! Don’t get discouraged by one
setback. There are many more opportunities to come.
Before taking any drastic step, just think
about your parents. Just remember the smile on their faces, and how because of
you, it could vanish. I know I am quoting from the movie 3 idiots, but then it
is the truth.
Any problem can be solved. So, let’s get into the race and fight our way through!
Any problem can be solved. So, let’s get into the race and fight our way through!
All the very best with your preparations.
Wish you success and happiness in life!
Cheers!
Cheers!